You're site definitely looks nice, and thanx for the offer!
For the moment I am kinda locked into using the template I am set up with.
The template allows me to switch out modules styles of various color and design by adding a css suffix to the module. So div.moduletable would be div.moduletable-red or div.moduletable-blue. You add the suffix in the module options in the J! admin CP. For example I believe the 'Polls' module allows you to add a suffix in the options.
I really like the control you allow in your setup, but as my template will already try and control the look of the module (sometimes in an awkward way) the only way to change the look would be to put it in the 'pre' box of your module, but that unfortunately changes the style after J! has already has it way with it. So if i used your controls and changed the bg to blue, and J! wanted it red, i would have a module that was red at the top, blue in the middle and red on the bottom.
-or I could just drop some suffix that matches a style already in the css or a style i could add to the css, and voila! J! obeys
so thats what i meant about the suffix. A bit wordy I know, but you prob get what im sayin anyway. Thanx again.
-Joshua